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:iconnebulanovia:NebulaNovia posted a status
I am awful at social skills man
I dont even know how to make an internet friend dude (irl people are ok-ish tho)
Anyone got any tips? I feel like there is a large group on this site that kinda hates me...

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:iconrienet-halun:
Rienet-Halun Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016
I usually just start by saying hello to people, commenting on their work, and things like that. But if they don't reply back much, then I don't try to keep conversations going.
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Redly-Panda Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Honestly what I do is try to join a lot of group chats. Maybe try my best to host a soical event or two like board game online or something maybe watch movies. It's nice to try to host something for everyone. <3 I just try my best to talk to people and seem as nice as I can be.

I know that feeling all too well. ;0;
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broqentoys Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
um... i usually just listen when they have something to say to me :3

and i uh... ask them about their day xD
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MallowGlitz Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016
ah I know the struggle ;v;
I lack so many social skills and always worry if I appear rude, unfriendly or in any other way too negative or too positive, that kinda worry keeps me from interacting with people I hardly know D=
So I dont have any tips, but at lest I can tell you that youre a very nice and reasonable person ;v;
You never really appeared rude to me or in a way that could make someone hate you. (I sometimes feel like others cant stand me too, I try to tell myself that 90% of the time its only an awful feeling and nothing more ;v; )
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:iconnebulanovia:
NebulaNovia Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016  Student Digital Artist
;A; im so glad someone understands! And it makes me so happy that you think im kind and reasonable!! <3
I wouldnt worry about you being 'undesirable' or anything! You are super perky and fun! You seem really nice too <3

Ye its an awful feeling ;-; i dont think its gonna go away for awhile though unfortunately
I hope ot goes away for you though because you dont deserve to feel that way! You deserve happiness <3
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:iconmallowglitz:
MallowGlitz Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016
aww thanks but Im afraid I wont be able to get rid of it any time soon either.
pretty sure it comes with the whole package of having aspergers, so there is that ;v; 
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Skafarorya Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016  Student Digital Artist
Well, I'm not sure how to make internet friends, but I met mine by chatting with them through comments and notes. I offered one of them some help and that's how we became friends.
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:iconnebulanovia:
NebulaNovia Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016  Student Digital Artist
Hmm perhaps i could reach out more
maybe i shouldnt just wait for them to come along ^^'' and activly seek out friendship
Thank you for this tip!
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:iconskafarorya:
Skafarorya Featured By Owner Jun 8, 2016  Student Digital Artist
Your welcome! I hope you would be succesful!
Also, try joining in one of their streams. You can get close to almost anyone on a stream!
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